Owesifazane othathe isithwalo sokungagezi ukhala ngokunuka emzimbeni njengoba esenezinyanga ezinhlanu engagezi

Owesifazane othathe isithwalo sokungagezi ukuze acebe ukhala ngokunuka emzimbeni ngemuva kwezinyanga ezinhlanu engagezi.

  Funda udaba lwakhe ngezansi:

"Sekuphele izinyanga ezinhlanu ngihlala ngingagezile. Umzimba wami uyanuka futhi ubolile. Izingubo zami zinuka kabi. Abantu uma bengibona bayangigwema, futhi nami ngangibagwema ngenxa yephunga. Kodwa isithwalo sokungagezi siyasebenza. Imali yaqala ukuvela macala onke. Konke engangikuthinta kwaphenduka ithuba lebhizinisi. Ngacabanga ukuthi ngingakwazi ukulilawula iphunga inqobo nje uma ngiceba.Kodwa ngolunye usuku, angibange ngisakubekezelela. Ngazizwa ngingcolile kuze kufike emphefumulweni wami. 

Manje inkinga ukuthi ngivele ngageza kanye ngenxa yephunga kimi kepha izinto zami zibukeka zifiliphala ngenxa yokwephula imigomo yesithwalo sokungagezi.",esho.

  Ukuthatha Isithwalo Sokungagezi Ukuze Ucebe: Ukholo Lwabantu, Ukuqamba Amanga, Nokushaqeka Komphakathi.

Emiphakathini eminingi yaseNingizimu Afrika nasemhlabeni wonke, sekusabalele inkolelo yokuthi abantu abaningi abangaphumeleli ngokushesha empilweni bakhetha “ukuthatha izindlela ezimfishane” — okubalwa khona ukuthwala, ukungagezi noma imikhuba engalungile — ngenhloso yokuthola ingcebo esheshayo. Lokhu sekudale ukudideka, ukwesaba nokukhuluma okungapheli phakathi komphakathi. Abanye bakholwa wukuthi ukuthwala kuyindlela yokuxhumana nemimoya noma imilingo ebhekwa njengengekho emthethweni ukuze umuntu acebe ngokushesha, ngaphandle kokusebenza kanzima. Kodwa abanye bachaza lokhu njengokungagezi okudumazayo nokuphula imithetho yomphakathi, ukudla imikhuba edala izinkinga ezingapheli. 

  Izizathu Ezenza Abantu Bakholwe Ekuthwaleni 

Izazi zithi ukungasebenzi, ububha obukhulu, nengcindezi yokuphumelela empilweni yizinto ezidala ukuthi abantu bacabange ngezindlela ezingekho emthethweni. Umfundi wezengqondo uthi: “Uma umuntu ebona engathuthuki, ethuka ukwehluleka noma ebona abanye bephumelela ngokushesha, kuba lula ukuthi akholwe ukuthi kukhona okufushane akungena kukho ukuze naye afinyelele lapho.” Lokhu sekushiyile imindeni eminingi ididekile futhi ingabaza izimpilo zabantu abangaceba ngokuzuma. Iqiniso Ngemuva Komkhuba Wokuthwala Izikhulumi zenkolo nezemilingo ziyavuma ukuthi kukhona abantu abazinikela ezithombeni noma emikhubeni ethile becabanga ukuthi bazothola imali. Kodwa baningi abaphawula ukuthi abaningi bajikiswa indawo yalokho okungamanga: “Abaningi bayakhohliswa. Abanye bakhishwa imali, abanye baphathwa kabi ngokomzimba nangokomoya,” kusho umfundisi wasendaweni. Abantu abaningi abanokuthwala empilweni yangempela bahlaselwa ukungezwani, ukungaphumuli, ukulahlekelwa ubuthongo, ukufa okungazelelwe noma izishoshovu zokuziphatha ezingazinzile ezidala ingcindezi eyengeziwe empilweni yabo.

 
Umthelela Emphakathini

Lo mkhuba udale ukwesaba phakathi kwabantu, ikakhulukazi uma kunamacala okubulawa kwabantu, ukunyamalala, noma ukuguguleka kobudlelwano. Sekubuye kwahlasela ingane nezinsizwa ezingazi lutho, njengoba umuntu elanyelwa yizindaba zokuthi “izintombi zithwalwa ukuze kucebe omunye umuntu.” 

  Iseluleko Kubantu Abasha

Izazi zikhuthaza abantu abasha ukuthi bangajahi imali ngendlela engalungile. Impumelelo idinga ukubekezela, umsebenzi, nokwakha ikhono. “Ukuceba ngendlela enobuqotho kuthatha isikhathi, kodwa akudingi ukuthi ulahlekelwe impilo noma ubuntu bakho,” kusho uchwepheshe wezomnotho. 

  Isiphetho 

 Ukuthatha isithwalo sokungagezi ukuze ucebe kuwumqondo onobuthi emphakathini. Nakuba abantu abaningi befuna ukuphuma ebubheni, akudingekile ukuthi bancike emikhubeni enobungozi. Ukusebenza ngokuzimisela, ukonga, ukufunda amakhono amasha, nokwakha izindlela ezisemthethweni zokuziphilisa kuyona indlela eqinile yokufinyelela inhlanhla. .

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